October 9, 2005
YOU WERE FORMED FOR GOD'S FAMILY
A Sermon by Gordon E. Simmons, Pastor
Reformation Lutheran Church
We're in the midst of our 40 Days of Purpose Campaign. Are you beginning to understand your purpose in life? Not long ago a woman named Adelina Dominguez died in San Diego. What made her death noteworthy is that according to the Guinness Book of Records, she was the oldest living American. At 114 years of age, she outlived all of her children and some of her grandchildren. When she was asked the secret of her longevity, Associated Press reported she gave all the credit to God and she said, "I knew God had a purpose for my life."
Now, we're in this 40 days series on God's purpose for your life. And last week, we looked at the first purpose that God has for your life, and that is to get to know God and to love God. The Bible calls that worship because you were planned for God's pleasure. And today, we're going to look at the second purpose, which is: you are formed for God's family. Family always involves other people. You’re not in a family if you are all by yourself. God put you here to be connected to other people. Look at I Peter 2:17 Love the family of believers. That's what God wants you to do. That's the second purpose of your life. You see, God says I want you to learn to love the people in your family. Why? Because we belong to God and God wants us to learn to get along together with each other. Those of you who are parents understand this. You want your kids to get along with each other. God wants us -- within the Church -- God wants us to love each other. It’s one of our purposes in life.
So Rick Warren says that our second purpose in life is Fellowship. In Greek the word is koinonia. That's the word that the Bible uses to describe loving one other. Look up I John 4:21. Those who love God must love their brothers and sisters too. We have to love other believers, other members of the family of God. That’s why we’re here! It’s part of our purpose. You were not meant to be here on earth alone, to go through life on your own. The fact is we need each other.
Fellowship begins with membership in a congregation. You find a church family and you choose to get connected to it. Look at what the Bible has to say in Ephesians 2:19. You are citizens with the saints and also members of the household of God. You belong. The Christian life is not just a matter of believing. It is matter of belonging.
You hear some people say, “Well, I’m a Christian, but I don't want to belong to any church.” That just doesn't make sense. The church is where you get connected to other Christians. That's like saying, “I’m a football player, but I don't want to be a part of any team.” It doesn't work. That's like saying, “I’m a tuba player, but I don't want to be a part of an orchestra.” A tuba player without an orchestra sounds pretty weird. A Christian without a church family is an orphan. God meant us to be a part of a family. We are members together. Now, I know the word "membership," is a funny word to some of us. But the word comes out of the Bible. The Bible says that you a member of the Body of Christ. Just like your hand is a member of your body, that's how tightly we're tied to each other. This is about belonging to each other, about being part of a family.
When we are a part of the body of Christ, we learn to share with each other. The Bible says this in Acts 2:44-45. All who believed were together and had all things in common; they would sell their possessions and goods and distribute the proceeds to all, as any had need. Notice two things: one, you can't belong to each other without meeting together; and two, you can't belong to each other without sharing. The more frequently you meet together, the closer you're going to get. Deep friendships don't just happen. They happen because you choose to make the time for them. It is not luck. It is a choice. And you can't develop friendships without sharing. The book of Acts says, “they shared everything." In the Church, we have a lot to share with each other. We can share our experiences. Just think of all the wealth of knowledge sitting here right now in this church family in this service, and how much we could learn from each other if we just spend the time to get together.
In the church, we can also share our problems. We're not meant to face our problems alone. The Bible says, “Share each other's troubles and problems.” You know, when you share a joy, it is doubled; and when you share a problem, it is cut in half. Sometimes with other Christians you die of laughter and sometimes you're all shedding a tear. Why? Depends on what’s going on with the other people. You don't have to fix everybody's problem. God just says share your problems. Lend a listening ear.
Another aspect of being a part of a family is what might be called doing my part. Partnership is realizing that I’ve got a contribution to make and that the family of God needs me. Listen, God did not bring you to Reformation Church just so you could sit and soak in some spiritual spa. That's not why you're here. God brought you here to make a difference through your life. In every family there are family responsibilities. You divide up the chores; that’s being part of that family. This is God's family. And every one of us has a part. We serve one another. We love one another. We pray with one another. The Bible even says we have to put up with one another when we're doing all of this. That's how we work together. This is love in action. Not just in words. You see, it is great to share your heart, but it is even greater to do your part. Family members do that.
This morning after the services there will be a Time and Talent Fair in Spirit Hall. I hope that you can stop down for a few minutes and see some of the opportunities that exist in your church for you to do your part. We have dozens of different ministries. We’re not asking you to do them all; we’re just asking you to do one. That’s what happens when you belong to a family. You do your part. You can learn some more about this today, and then next week you there will be Time and Talent sheets for you to fill out.
People who were formed for the family of God will love other believers like they are family. Many of you know John 3:16, God so loved the world, but how about First John 3:16? We know love by this, that he laid down his life for us – and we ought to lay down our lives for one another. This is the deepest level of fellowship; sacrificing for each other. It's the kind of love Jesus Christ had for you.
Last Sunday we had quite an experience here. It was during the 9:00 service, and the smells of breakfast were finding their way up into the sanctuary. After a while, though, there was a different smell. Somebody came up and told me that the smell was coming from downstairs, but they had looked everywhere, and they couldn’t figure out the source. We turned out the lights in case it was an electrical problem. By the end of the service, the smell was still there, and nobody could tell where it was coming from. I called the fire
department. I told them, “We’ve got this smell here; there’s a lot of people in the building, could you just send somebody over to check it out?” In a minute there were two big hook and ladder trucks and an ambulance blocking Vernon Road and a dozen firemen running in carrying big, metal 6–foot axes. And members of the church went up to them and said, “Don’t you be messing with our new church building!” They were serious. They shook their fists at the firemen, and said, “Be careful what you do in here!” Fortunately it didn’t turn out to be a big problem, but I was interested in how our members stepped up to the defense of our church building. We need to come to the same defense of our church -- meaning our church members – we need to come to the defense of our church in the same way. To stand beside others who are having problems. To do our part in caring for one another. To love the other members of the family. To shake our fists at evil, and say, “Don’t you be messing with my brothers and sisters!” That’s what it means to be a part of a family, and we were put here to be a part of a family.
Loving God, that's called “Worship,” and loving each other, that's called “Fellowship.” It wasn't too long after Jesus left this earth that Christians began to get into trouble. The Romans weren't very hospitable to Christians. They were putting them up on stakes and burning them and they were crucifying them and throwing them to lions in the coliseums. And in that period of time, one of the most famous secular historians, not a Christian, wrote this about Christians, he said: “Behold, how they love each other." You see, what we want Reformation Church to be known for is not our size, not our sermons, not our singing, not our strategy, not our building, but our love. We want people to say, “That's the place where they love each other,” because that's what Christianity is all about, loving God and loving each other. I'm often been asked, "Why did Reformation Church grow so much over the years?" And I usually say something like, “When people find a church, a community, where there is genuine love, you have to lock the doors to keep people away, because people are not looking for religion, they are looking for a family. They are not looking just for a doctrine; they are looking for love.
This is part of our purpose in life. We were formed for God’s family. We were put here to be in fellowship with one another, to love each other. This is our purpose. And this is Good News! Thanks be to God!
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